--- title: 6 Ways to Know if Your Program is Prioritizing Relationships | Search Institute description: [Video] Is your youth-facing organiization prioritizing relationships? We've found that many organizations believe they are making them a higher priority than they really are. --- Theme + Migration = $1489 (Pay for the Theme Only). 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[Resources Tailored to Your Role](https://searchinstitute.org/resources-hub/search?query=&page=1&configure%5BenablePersonalization%5D=true&configure%5BuserToken%5D=anonymous-2aec4746-2f17-46a7-871b-a10e30f1f2f7&configure%5BclickAnalytics%5D=true&hierarchicalMenu%5Btaxonomy.lvl0%5D=Resource%20Audience) Tools to support everyone who works with young people — educators, youth program workers, schools and youth program leaders, and community members [Resources Related to the Setting Where Relationships Take Place](https://searchinstitute.org/resources-hub/search?query=&page=1&configure%5BenablePersonalization%5D=true&configure%5BuserToken%5D=anonymous-2aec4746-2f17-46a7-871b-a10e30f1f2f7&configure%5BclickAnalytics%5D=true&hierarchicalMenu%5Btaxonomy.lvl0%5D=Setting) Young people thrive when they experience a broader web of relationships, build strong relationships in a class or program, at home, and across your organization. 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But at Search Institute, we have found that although many youth facing organizations *believe* that they are making relationships a priority, in actuality many organizations make them a lower priority than such things as curricula or program content. In order to assess the priority organizations give relationships, [Dr. Kent Pekel](https://www.search-institute.org/experts/kent-pekel), our President and CEO, has developed a quick 6-question assessment to evaluate your own organization’s efforts to put relationships first. Here are the 6 questions: ### **1. Time** Is there dedicated time to building relationships with and among youth?  Do you make time for your staff to plan those relationship building strategies? ### **2. Staff** Are relationships part of the evaluation process when staff is hired or volunteers come on board? Are they part of the yearly assessment and promotion process? ### **3. Budget** Are financial resources dedicated to prioritizing relationships over non-relationship expenses? ### **4. Training or Professional Development** Are relationships an ongoing focus of professional development or capacity building in your organization? Have you held a workshop, seminar or staff meeting with the primary focus of improving relationships in your practice? ### **5. Data** Do you have any quantitative (such as from a [survey](https://www.search-institute.org/surveys/)) or qualitative (from interviews or focus groups) data on how kids experience relationships in your organization? ### **6. Definition** Have you defined the kinds of relationships you want to build with and among young people? Do you have a vision for how those relationships fit into your organization? To learn more about prioritizing relationships, watch Dr. Pekel’s short video below: Click below to watch this short video! 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